Why Men Cheat.

Got a friend of mine to give me a few reasons why she thinks….or rather “believes”….men cheat in relationships. Here are some extracts….
 
1. Because they had the option.
The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes
ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the
opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

2. It boosts their ego.
Sometimes men no longer feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex
and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may
allow her to stroke his ego and more. There is nothing like the thrill of
the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their
efforts, their egos swell even larger.

3. You grow apart.
Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s
met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays
golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.

4. You argue a lot.
Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or
argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on
them about something.

5. They have fallen out of love.
Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how
to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or
financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love
and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win
as they can get.

7. To get revenge.
A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on
him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but
through good old-fashioned sex?

8. It’s new, different and exciting.
Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try
a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t
necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their
partners.

9. To see if they can get away with it.
If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he
may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it.
However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught
has now become easier than ever.

10. Because you have allowed it in the past.
If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than
likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead
enough, you will forgive them.

Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a
combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good
enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a bitch….

 
Can someone pleeeeeeeaase tell me why women cheat too…..
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